Said a frizzled old lady in perfect Bawlmerese behind me in line today at the grocery store when Charlotte wanted her binky. She ignored the adorable baby the whole time we were waiting in line, which I thought was strange — because in an empty grocery store, everyone wants to chat with the baby, and we’re glad for it. I sure don’t want Charlotte to be as anti-social as I am. (Hell, I don’t want to be as antisocial as I am.) Anyway, snarky, “That’s why your baby’s fussing a tiny bit,” comments are unwelcome at best. I wanted to point out the sweater Charlotte had on, remind her that a baby’s parents usually know her best or to tell her to mind her own business. But I can’t control how people act. I just ignored her, which I thought was a silent, “Shut up,” and I walked home with veggies, bread and my daughter.
Charlotte’s been enjoying the local (year-round!) farmers market the past couple of Saturdays. This past weekend, we went with two very good friends and their two adorable children. Lots of smiles (and local veggies).
We took Charlotte for a walk this evening because she’s been fussy from when we get home until she goes to bed all week. We passed a man who said something about her pretty blue eyes. I looked at my wife and joked that there will come a time that I would punch someone in the face for that. Oh, the teenage years will be fun.
But, yes, her eyes really are this blue.
Lordy, Oh, Lordy,
Go tell your sweet sweet Mama.
Cause this guy has a new daughter
And no patience for your fuckin drama.
There are some excellent sites you should check out while I’m gone!
Armand, the founder of Moleskinerie, is back with a re-vamped Notebookism! I, for one, have missed a site devoted to all things stationery and the writing life, as Moleskinerie used to be. Stay tuned for what I’m sure will be one of your favorite blogs.
Joachim is travelling around the world between his 25th and 26th Birthdays and blogging about it all on 360 in 365. I’m reminded that all I did then was to worry about a car I didn’t like owning, jump through academic hoops and start a pencil blog. Instead of regret, however, I’m just enjoying the stories.
And, of course, you should check out North Baltimore Bike Brigade, which I co-run with my good pal Dan. There’s a blogroll of bike blogs on there of which we’re proud, and a nice community of cyclists, largely from Charm City.
Only in Baltimore would someone bum “bus fair” off of you while you’re on your cell phone, standing around a few other people who are not on phones and who do not get asked for change. Only in Baltimore, also, would you oblige with a smile.
I love this city.
Okay. So it’s windy. I live in a four-story brick apartment building shaped like an “L”. I live on the outside of the right angle. This is a sturdy building. Three blizzards this year. Wind was a sound shaking the storm windows and trees. Tonight, it is a vibration. Wow. I hope all the apartment roofs in lower Roland Park can take this. Everyone’s got some rain spout hanging off, or worse.
Also, Walmart’s coming to Remington/Old Goucher. Wow. I don’t know how I feel about this. But I know some “buffies” who love the Walmart in Cockeysville who are celebrating. They moved that fucker from the lightrail in Hunt Valley because, you know, people from “the city” were coming up and stealing shit. I’m sure none of these little white boys get off soccer practice and steal themselves a Red Bull, right? And of course we all know that the best get-away from crime is a mass transit train that leaves Hunt Valley station very slowly.
But at least it’s better than a car dealership. Yes. I said it. We have enough cars killing pedestrians in this fucking city, thank you.
I am not venturing out on my bike or on foot, and my bus line’s not running, either. Not that I’m upset to work from home, on my tiny laptop/netbook.
While the snow is falling like crazy, and my belly is full.
Mama and I have been commuting on the bus since we found out about Baby in mid-August. I love to cycle, but I’d much rather ride with Mama. Now that she’s on bed rest, that’s not an option. On the bright side of this week’s rollercoaster, I get to cycle more now, to work at least. Winter cycling is rewarding, and I could really use the exercise. Soon, Mama will get to ride again, too. And, in a year maybe, Baby also!
It wasn’t long before everything was either dirty or melting.
Getting tea today at a local cafe’, I asked for my change in ones (for the bus). I joked with the lady who works there, “I don’t wanna steal all your ones.” She showed me her huge roll of ones and said, “When I get home, I have like thirty singles. People ask me if I’m a stripper or a dancer. I’m like, ‘Thanks, I guess, for thinking I’m attractive enough to be a stripper.’”
I’ve blogged a lot about walking. I know. It’s something that I don’t do enough (because I am lazy and impatient) but something I enjoy endlessly.
Wednesday, I was at a community meeting at St. Paul Street and North Avenue in Central Baltimore. It was supposed to last until 7:30 or 8:00, but it was over at 7:04 for pizza and chatting. I’d already done my “networking” before the meeting started, so I bolted to catch my 7:53 bus at the train station. On my way from my chair to the door, I thought, “Why should I bullshit in my office until my bus? I can just walk!” So when I left the building, I made a left and headed for home.
Sure, folks will chide you for walking through “that area” at “that time of night.” Dude, 7:00pm dark is not the same as 2:00am dark — and I don’t walk around anywhere at that time (except once in Carbondale when we walked from the train station to home in the dead middle of the night after a trip to Memphis, with a tiny flashlight – but that’s another story). I didn’t see anyone sketchy and in fact was the sketchy person to lady who halted her exit from her car until after I passed her around 24th Street. And for two young ladies carrying their groceries home above 25th Street.
Instead of driving or sitting on an empty bus or pedaling uphill, I got to peak into the big, old, stately houses on St. Paul Street (think 3-story rowhomes with big basements), at folks’ bookshelves and holiday decorations. I greeted a dozen dog-walkers. I caught the exam-time buzz as I cut through JHU to University Parkway. I scared a guy on the section of University Parkway there the streetlights are out and where it is completely pitch black. And, at the top of the hill, I saw the warm glow of the LED star lights in our windows, on the corner of the building, where warmth, my wife and a pasta dinner awaited. In all, I walked 3 miles in 45 minutes. Not that far, but fast, and I was tired. That distance is small for a hike, but pretty long in a smallish city like Baltimore.
It was an exceptional night. I read before bed and slept like a baby.
We planned some similar fun walking for Saturday, which is itself worthy of a post.
This week: grey, rain, rain, rain, grey. With recently broken bones and my still-smashed right hand, I’m tempted to sound like one of those people who acts like crappy weather was invented just for suffering and just for their suffering at that. It doesn’t feel good.
However, in search of better times and making the best of what’s left of autumn, Mrs. P. and I will venture to our very favorite bookstore and perhaps have dinner somewhere in Charles Village, Hampden or Roland Park. I will have a waterproof messenger bag, so treasures will make it home unscathed. At least it’s going to be in the upper 50s/lower 60s. I hate when it rains just shy of the freezing point. Unless I’m cycling. I do get a kick out of that.
Curiously, Normal’s is on 31st Street, where I blew a spoke last Sunday and had to miss the ride I’d spent so much time helping to plan. Much better tidings today, I think.
My bike is out of commission currently. Yes, breaking a rear spoke on the drive side can make your wheel no longer turn without hitting the frame. No, this does not, as has been suggested, make me a wimp or perfectionist. It’s a matter of my understanding bike wheels, at least a little bit. Plus, there’s the empirical smack-your-ass part where my wheel literally does not turn. The shop will take care of it; it’s under warranty. It’s a good excuse to visit my favorite bike shop.
I need to get some new books and spend quality time with the Mrs. and our little belly/Baby. As if it’s not obvious, I’m growing increasingly less patient with people’s bullshit. A nice walk usually helps a lot.
Barry’s, Dan’s and mine. We were first to the Memorial Ride (read more here.)
Photo Friday: Three.
Being a good Baltimorean, Mrs. P., AKA Aunt Frankie, made a Ravens purple blanket for Little Z, AKA Zack Jr. This is him playing with Baby G.’s toy stash and enjoying the colorful rug in my living room last week. Also, rocking that purple blanket.
Little Z, by the way, said his first word that day: Dada.
Happy because he’s heading to the Tour de Greater Homewood/Jack Yates Memorial Ride on a beautiful Sunday. MORE INFO HERE! You should come, too!
Of someone riding my old (2005) bike. I found this photo on my old hard-drive (the one with Windoze). It’s my Dad. It’s during our move from Carbondale to Baltimore in August 2006. When our bikes were sitting by the little trailer, ready to get packed last, my Dad snatched my bike and took off. He wound up buying the 2006 model a few weeks later. Cycling is so damned fun that no one can resist and unattended bike.
It looked like this.
Took a long ride around the city yesterday and witnessed some overwhelming colors. Photo Friday: Autumn 2009.
Fatherhood
