After I wore sandals and no jacket to IKEA Tuesday, I was tucked into a puffy vest and scarf last night, walking in the dark with a travel mug of very good coffee and holiday tunes on my little mp3 player. It’s seldom that I walk anywhere alone anymore. And, while I miss Charlotte when I do, it’s something I also savor. The last time was nearly a month ago, when I sped my way on a 3 mile stroll to retrieve a lost Elmo doll.
This morning, Charlotte is helping Mommy fold laundry, which means picking things from the basket, plopping them onto Mommy’s lap and laughing.
Daddy takes a second — a distant second — when Mommy’s home from work and largely on weekends. She follows Mommy everywhere and wants story after story. Last night, she told Mommy which three stories she wanted: “Beeah, Henwy and Pond.” (Long story.) I don’t mind being second to Mommy. She did, you know, carry her around for nine months and all that. She’s never more excited than when Mommy’s home from work. I can even get her into a mood that would require three cups of coffee from me if I tell her, when she gets up from her nap, that, “Mommy’s home soon!”
Today, we are taking Charlotte to Midtown for some holiday fun. We both used to work there, and it’s weird not to spend time there anymore, the coffee capital of this fair city.


